<p>1:25 <i>The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit- </i>See on :3. Philemon needed to have the grace of Jesus in his spirit / mind in order to make the right decisions about Onesimus, and Paul wishes this for him. The <i>charis</i> or gift of our Lord Jesus is <i>His </i>spirit or mind / disposition. And Paul wished that the Lord's Spirit would be with and in the spirit of Philemon; for this is the essence of Christianity, that Christ should dwell in our hearts / minds.</p>