<p>4:11 <em>Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another</em>- This sets the standard so high. For the love of God toward us is not &quot;love&quot; as the world understands it, but the love of utter, total self-sacrifice expressed on the cross (:10). It is with that love that we &quot;ought to love one another&quot;. Anything which may damage the path to salvation of the other must not be done; and every effort and sacrifice is to be made to help others on the path toward salvation.</p>