<p>3:3 <i>Whose adorning, let it not be the outward adorning of braiding the hair and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on apparel</i><em>- </em>'Not A but B' doesn't necessarily have to mean 'Not A at all'. Such a grammatical construction is common in several languages. The idea is that they were to focus upon internal beauty far more than upon external beauty. The idea of adorning for a husband is used approvingly elsewhere in the Bible.</p>