<p>1:16 <i>N</i><i>o longer as a slave but m</i><i>ore than a slave, a beloved brother- </i>This is just the term Paul has used about both Philemon and Archippa, presumably his wife. Paul's patient love for Philemon was to be reflected in Philemon's love for Onesimus.</p><p><i>Especially to me but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord</i>- &quot;In the flesh&quot; perhaps refers to how after reconciliation, the parties are closer to each other than before.</p>