<p>1:18 <i>(The Lord grant to him that he find the mercy of the Lord in that day); and in how many things he gave service to me at Ephesus, you know very well</i>- Paul obviously thought that his prayers and wishes for Onesiphorus could affect the outcome of the judgment seat &quot;in that day&quot; for him. If we really can affect the eternal destiny of each other, and Paul's letters, prayers and example show that we surely can- then we should like Paul be constantly in prayer and concern for each others' path towards the Kingdom.</p>