Deeper Commentary
	  
	  :1  Paul, a prisoner of Christ- Paul clearly resented his 
	  imprisonment, but he sees his captors as representing Christ; just as he 
	  asks slaves to consider their masters as Christ and live 'as unto Him' 
	  through secular experience. And Paul was no hypocrite; he saw his 
	  imprisonment as being served as unto Christ.
	  
	  And Timothy our brother- 
	  So Timothy was with Paul in Rome, possibly in prison with him. At the end 
	  of 2 Timothy, Paul begs Timothy to come to him, apparently before he dies. 
	  It could be argued that Paul was in fact released; for perhaps Timothy 
	  came to him, and now he writes to Philemon as if he expects to shortly be 
	  released and would come and visit him and settle any financial loss 
	  incurred by Onesimus (:19,22). Yet Paul does write in 2 Tim. 4 as if is at 
	  the end of his life, and the situation in prison has radically changed 
	  from the period at the end of Acts when he lived in his own rented 
	  accommodation within the prison. So perhaps during that period, Timothy 
	  came to him; and then on the second imprisonment, he asked for Timothy to 
	  come again to Rome and be with him. Seeing Paul had left Timothy with the 
	  difficult charge of running the rather wild church at Ephesus, this is 
	  itself a picture of how Paul took much encouragement from Timothy, a 
	  brother far weaker than himself. And this sets us an important principle.
	  
	  To Philemon our beloved and fellow-worker - 
	  Paul shows an increasing fondness for the syn 
	  prefix in his letters, if we arrange them chronologically. He came to 
	  perceive, in his spiritual maturity, the need for our brethren, even if we 
	  disagree with them and have to rebuke their weaknesses. 
	  
	  :2 And to Apphia our sister, and to Archippus our fellow-soldier, and to the church in your house- Why mention these two? 
	  Probably Apphia was Philemon's wife and Archippus his son. Or maybe they 
	  were elders in the house church which Philemon ran. "Fellow soldier" might 
	  reflect how Paul, writing surrounded by soldiers guarding him, considered
	  himself to be the soldier of Jesus. 
	  
	  :3 Grace to you and peace 
	  
	  
	  from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ- 
	  This was no mere formal greeting. Onesimus had run 
	  away from Philemon for a reason; and Onesimus feared that Philemon would 
	  show him no grace on his return. These greetings and conclusions of Paul 
	  in his letters were a real prayerful wish for grace and peace to be 
	  theirs. He wanted Philemon to know God's grace, and to have the peace 
	  which came from it. Fretting about the evil of his runaway slave and the 
	  financial loss caused (:18,19) was not the way of peace.
	  
	  :4 
	  I thank my God always, making mention of you always 
	  in my prayers- 
	  This is clearly alluding to the Is. 62:6,7 passage, about always making 
	  mention of Jerusalem in prayer. But for Paul, the true city of God was now 
	  the scattered group of Christian believers around the Roman empire of the 
	  first century. Jewish minds would’ve picked up Paul’s purposeful allusion 
	  to the ‘always’ prayers for Jerusalem; and would’ve marvelled that he saw 
	  the great holy city as now the bunch of guys whom he’d baptized around the 
	  place, and that instead of a city, it was those very real men and women 
	  who filled his thoughts, prayers and yearnings. Paul saw himself indeed as 
	  the watchman upon Zion’s walls- but watching over the people of God, not a 
	  physical city.
	  
	  
	  :5 Hearing of the love and faith which you have toward the Lord Jesus 
	  and toward all the saints- Because Philemon believes the Lord Jesus, 
	  he must believe what His brethren say. And so it is with us. In some parts 
	  of our community there is constant doubt of our brethren and suspicions as 
	  to their motives and words; and yet this, as with all attitudes we 
	  adopt to our brethren, is the mind we are showing toward the Lord Jesus 
	  Himself.  See on Jn. 8:42. Paul would have heard about all this faith and 
	  love towards all believers from Onesimus. But Onesimus feared that in his 
	  case, Philemon would not show him much love. And presumably there was a 
	  reason why Onesimus ran away from Philemon- probably connected with abuse 
	  of him. This is a lovely picture, of a man recognizing that another 
	  brother who treats him badly does in fact have many good points, and 
	  treats others differently to how the brother treats him. And Paul thanked 
	  God for the good points in Philemon, even though he considered him 
	  deficient in grace (see on :3). Dealing with believers who lack grace is a 
	  real challenge; and Paul's positive approach to Philemon, thanking God for 
	  his good points, is a great example to us.
	  
	  
	   :6 I pray that our fellowshipping of your faith may result in our 
	  coming to acknowledge every good thing which is in you in Christ- The 
	  crucial importance of personal, Christ-like example empowering our witness 
	  is brought out here in the AV: “The communication [sharing] of thy faith 
	  may become effectual [Gk. ‘energized’] by the acknowledgment [i.e. 
	  recognition, by others] of every good thing which is in you in Christ”. 
	  There’s a lot compacted into these words, strung together as they are in a 
	  rather awkward sentence. Our sharing of the faith is energized, it takes 
	  on power and compulsion as a witness, when others can acknowledge that we 
	  are “in Christ” because they see His characteristics reflected in us. This 
	  is why effective witness can only be made by those “in Christ”, those who 
	  show His personality written in theirs. This will ‘energize’ their sharing 
	  of the facts of the Gospel with others. As I have pointed out at such 
	  length in The Power Of Basics, each doctrine of the Gospel is 
	  designed to elicit practical changes in human life. Where those changes 
	  are apparent, the preaching of a doctrinal Gospel becomes empowered and 
	  energized. Proffering mere doctrinal propositions to this world and 
	  nothing else, will never be successful. It will lack power, energy and the 
	  compulsion required for conversion.
	  
	  What was good in Philemon was counted to him because he was "in Christ". 
	  We must perceive that others too are counted as righteous because they are 
	  in Christ, and we will likewise seek to count them as having imputed 
	  righteousness even as we feel and know God has so counted us. For frankly, 
	  Philemon was lacking in grace, and the good things about him are being 
	  almost exaggerated- because he is being seen as "in Christ". The power to 
	  share our faith ["fellowshipping of your faith"] is rooted in realizing 
	  that we have been counted righteous through our being in Christ. As God 
	  reckons us righteous, so we must reckon each other (Rom. 3:28; 4:3,5,24 
	  RV). This is an immense challenge, but it comes directly from the doctrine 
	  of imputed righteousness. Our being justified / counted righteous by God's 
	  grace is the very basis and essence of our salvation. And yet, as ever, we 
	  can't be passive to this wonder. We too are to seek to count others as 
	  righteous, seeing them for who they are as 'in Christ'. Every time we are 
	  sinned against, or perceive the weakness and spiritual incompletion in our 
	  brother or sister who is in Christ... we have a wonderful opportunity to 
	  count them as righteous, in the same way as we are counted righteous 
	  through being in Christ. The Hebrew word tsadaq, to count 
	  righteous, to justify, is used about our justification of others in Dan. 
	  12:3- those who count many as righteous will shine as the stars for ever 
	  [AV "turn many to righteousness" rather misleadingly gives the idea of 
	  converting others by preaching, but that's not the idea of the Hebrew].
	  
	  :7 Already I had much joy and comfort in your love- Paul gives an 
	  excellent pattern to us in how he dealt with Philemon, whom, it would 
	  appear, had not treated neither Paul nor Onesimus in a Christ-like way. 
	  Paul genuinely rejoices in the good deeds of Philemon in other contexts: 
	  “We have great joy… in thy love, because the bowels of the saints are 
	  refreshed by thee, brother”. But he goes on to ask Philemon to do this to 
	  him: “Brother, let me have joy of you… refresh my heart” (Philemon 7,20). 
	  The two verses are clearly linked to each other- the words “joy”, 
	  “brother”, “refresh”, “bowels” etc. recur. Paul appears to be saying: ‘I 
	  fully recognize, brother, that you’ve done many good things, given other 
	  brethren joy, refreshed their hearts. But, you’ve not done that to your 
	  slave, brother Onesimus, neither to me. But I acknowledge the good, 
	  Christ-like things in you that I see, in other contexts (:6). But please, 
	  expand that love to include me; please, treat me in the same good way 
	  you’ve treated other brethren; treat me too as a brother in Christ’. Now 
	  this sets a wonderful example to us. To acknowledge some good things even 
	  in our bitterest enemy in the ecclesia. Because they are in Christ. To 
	  realize that how they are treating us is not actually how they treat all 
	  brethren. And to plead with them as does Paul, “for love’s sake”, to treat 
	  us in the graceful way they treat their other brethren.
	  Because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed through you- See on :20 Refresh 
	  my heart.
	  
	  :8 Thus although
	  I have all boldness in Christ to command you to do what is required- 
	  Because Philemon was "in Christ" he had to act as Christ; he actually 
	  had to receive his slave back as a brother and not punish him as many 
	  slave owners would. This was a command, an imperative arising from being 
	  "in Christ". Paul could be bold about this- without doubt, Philemon should 
	  accept Onesimus back. Paul likewise opens his heart to the Corinthians, 
	  when he asks them if they want him to come to them with a rod, or with the 
	  spirit of meekness (1 Cor. 4:21). Paul is remarkably open hearted in his 
	  letters. He shares openly his internal questioning- whether to take a 
	  tough line, or to beg and implore in gentleness. Both would have been 
	  legitimate. And the "rod" or 'I command you, Philemon' would have been the 
	  approach he as a former legalist would have been more comfortable with. 
	  But he had now learned of Christ... to be different, and to take the 
	  gentler and more sensitive path.
	  
	  :9 Yet 
	  I prefer to appeal to you for love's sake- 
	  I, Paul, an old man and now a prisoner also for 
	  Christ Jesus- 
	  It could be argued that this is a human way of appeal, and Paul would have 
	  been better sticking to spiritual principle rather than emotional appeal. 
	  But he says that he does at times put things "in human terms" (Rom. 6:19; 
	  Gal. 3:15); he shows a remarkable humanity and sensitivity to the human 
	  situations of the folks and situations he addresses. 
	  
	  :10 I appeal to you for my child Onesimus- The fact that the Lord 
	  intercedes for us means that we should be open to others interceding with
	  us on behalf of another. Paul explains what I mean. In one of his 
	  countless allusions to the Gospels, he speaks of how he ‘beseeches’ or 
	  'appeals' Philemon to be generous and gracious to his runaway slave 
	  Onesimus. Paul uses the word parakleo- well known for its repeated 
	  use in the Gospels to describe how the Lord Jesus is our parakletos, 
	  our comforter, interceder, beseecher of the Father for us. Surely he means 
	  us to get the connection. As the Lord Jesus beseeches / intercedes the 
	  Father for us, Philemon included, so we, and Philemon, should be open to 
	  others beseeching us- and respond with a like grace and lavish 
	  response. And there’s another allusion to the Gospels in the very next 
	  verse of the letter to Philemon. 
	  
	  Whose father I became in my imprisonment- 
	  Paul had presumably converted or baptized Onesimus 
	  in prison. And yet he uses the same language of 'my child' regarding 
	  Timothy, whom he did not baptize, but spiritually influenced to a 
	  formative extent. Perhaps Onesimus had been baptized and was a brother in 
	  Philemon's house church. But he had run away and ended up either in Rome, 
	  or in prison there. And Paul's outreach even in chains had reached this 
	  runaway slave, just as it reached the Praetorian guard (Phil. 1:13). Those 
	  who feel shut in and unable to do much preaching can take great 
	  encouragement from how Paul managed to witness. 
	  
	  :11- see on Col. 1:6.
	  
	  He was once unprofitable to you- 
	  The unprofitable servant of Mt. 25:30 is all of us, the Lord taught. And 
	  so when Paul appeals to Philemon to be gracious to his unprofitable 
	  servant Onesimus (Philemon 11), he’s alluding back to that parable. And 
	  making the point that Philemon is himself an unprofitable servant, 
	  graciously received by his Lord; and so he should be likewise gracious to
	  his unprofitable servant. 
	  
	  But now is profitable to you and to me- By receiving Onesimus with grace, there would be 
	  “benefit” and “profit” for Philemon (Philemon 11,14 Gk.). Humanly 
	  speaking, there was only loss. For Onesimus had defrauded Philemon 
	  (Philemon 18 Gk.), and Paul was implying that Onesimus send him back to 
	  Rome to help him, with Philemon’s ‘agreement’ [AV “mind”] (Philemon 13,14 
	  GK.). Losing a slave was a material, financial loss. But by showing grace 
	  in this case, the material loss would become a spiritual profit for 
	  Philemon in the last day. 
	  
	  :12 He is as my very heart- Paul's spirit or heart was in Onesimus; 
	  they thought the same way. In this sense the spirit of Christ was in Noah 
	  and as it were preached to people in 1 Pet. 3:18, although Christ Himself 
	  was not there in Noah's time; the spirit of Christ was in the prophets 
	  although He didn't exist then (1 Pet. 1:11); Paul's spirit was present at 
	  the church gatherings in Corinth even though he was absent (1 Cor. 5:4). 
	  So in Onesimus, insofar as he had the spirit of Christ and Paul did too, 
	  Paul's spirit / mind / presence was standing before Philemon. This is "the 
	  unity of the Spirit".  
	  
	  And it is he whom I have sent back to you- That might seem obvious, but the idea is 'My very 
	  heart is in his very own person'. 
	  
	  :13 
	  I would have been glad to keep him with me, 
	  in
	  
	  order that he might 
	  serve me on your behalf during my imprisonment for the gospel- 
	  If Onesimus returned to 
	  Rome and served Paul there, he would be ministering to Paul as if Philemon 
	  was doing this- “on your behalf". So as Paul was represented by Onesimus 
	  (:12,17), so likewise Onesimus would represent Philemon. This is the John 
	  17-style unity which there is in Christ. It would seem that if Onesimus 
	  could be so useful to Paul in Rome, he was not therefore in prison; 
	  therefore Paul's outreach from within prison had reached to a runaway 
	  slave outside prison. And of course Onesimus was free to travel back from 
	  Rome to Philemon. Maybe Paul's teaching about grace in the letter to the 
	  church at Rome had been heard by Onesimus, and so he had come to ask Paul 
	  about working it all out in practice.
	  
	  
	  :14 
	  But I preferred to do nothing 
	  without your consent, so that your
	  
	  
	  goodness- Gk. 'your profit'. See 
	  on :12 But now is profitable. The picture we get of Philemon is 
	  that he was an active and good brother in many ways. He had an ecclesia 
	  that met in his house, probably, by implication, comprised of his own 
	  family / “house” whom he had converted. The “beloved Aphia” refers to a 
	  female [agapete]- probably his wife. He was well known for a truly 
	  generous spirit to the brethren, and for a deep faith (:5-7). And yet he 
	  his whole standing with the Lord, Paul implies, was going to be revealed, 
	  and stood now under question, over the issue of his attitude to his 
	  runaway slave who had now accepted Christ. If he wouldn’t accept him, then 
	  all this good upright living was in vain. Paul was giving him a test. He 
	  could’ve just kept Onesimus with him in Rome. But he sent him all the way 
	  back home to Philemon, to get his ‘agreement’ (Philemon 14, AV “mind”) 
	  that Philemon accepts Onesimus as a brother, and sends him back to Rome to 
	  serve Paul. He could’ve “retained” Onesimus; but instead, he seeks a 
	  “benefit” [spiritually] for Philemon by bringing the issue to a pointed 
	  head (:13,14). And so it can be with us, that providence brings one 
	  specific case or person into our lives to test whether or not we have 
	  really accepted grace in the very core of our hearts. And on this, all 
	  else ultimately depends. And these things ‘God works oftentimes with man’. 
	  We find ourselves living out the situations of both Onesimus and Philemon. 
	  The crucial challenge of grace comes to us time and again in ecclesial 
	  life, and we too present it to others. Upon our response to it, our 
	  salvation-by-grace depends. 
	  
	  Might not be by compulsion but of your own free will- 
	  It is quite possible to do good works because we 
	  are somehow forced to. The collection bag comes around, others put into 
	  it, and all eyes are on us when it's our turn. And so we too donate. But 
	  Paul elsewhere simply teaches that we must "let love be sincere". There 
	  can be an appearance of love without love. We can pray as Israel did but 
	  with no real connection with God; or like Elijah we can 'pray in our 
	  prayer'.  
	  Paul thought of ways to make Philemon bear spiritual 
	  fruit; so he leaves the choice over to his free will. Likewise he says 
	  that he had asked for and taken support from the believers in Philippi 
	  "Not because I desire a gift, but I desire fruit that may abound to your 
	  account" (Phil. 4:17). We likewise should sensitively consider our 
	  brethren and try to set up situations whereby they will produce spiritual 
	  fruit which will be credited to them. This is the way of spiritual 
	  maturity. We must not just do what we wish in the Lord's service, 
	  but think of what others need to do, for their own fruitfulness. For we 
	  seek the Lord's glory and for Him to be pleasured by them as well as by 
	  ourselves. Too often we can embark on a project for the Lord because it is 
	  what we want to do. But the bigger picture of the Lord's 
	  glorification must be ever in view.
	  
	  :15 For this perhaps is why he was parted from you for a while, that 
	  you might have him back forever- But the idea was that 
	  Onesimus would return to Philemon and then depart back to Rome and serve 
	  Paul there. So the "forever" sounds like a reference 
	  to the life eternal together in the Kingdom. The whole situation, of 
	  Onesimus apparently committing fraud, running away, probably from abuse by 
	  Philemon; his meeting with Paul in Rome and conversion, or at least, 
	  deeper conversion; Paul's desire to send him back to Philemon... all this 
	  was so that they might live eternally together forever. Aionos, 
	  "forever", is usually used of the life eternal and not for the remainder 
	  of this life. Perhaps Philemon's eternity depended upon his forgiveness of 
	  and reconciliation with Onesimus. Paul speaks of how Philemon would 
	  “receive” Onesimus “for ever”- and yet he is implying Onesimus should be 
	  sent back to minister to him in Rome. Surely what Paul has in mind is that 
	  if someone is truly our brother, then we will eternally “receive” them as 
	  such in the Kingdom ages- and therefore we ought to be doing that right 
	  now. The baptism of Onesimus was a hard call for Philemon. He had to 
	  believe that that difficult man who had defrauded him was now his brother, 
	  even though he hadn’t baptized him. Many an ecclesial upset has been 
	  caused by this kind of thing. 
	  
	  :16 No 
	  longer as a slave but more than a slave, a beloved brother- 
	  This is just the term Paul has used about both 
	  Philemon and Archippa, presumably his wife. Paul's patient love for 
	  Philemon was to be reflected in Philemon's love for Onesimus.
	  
	  Especially to me but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the 
	  Lord- "In the flesh" perhaps 
	  refers to how after reconciliation, the parties are closer to each other 
	  than before. 
	  
	  :17 So if you consider me your partner- Paul asks Philemon to 
	  prepare a room in his home because he was planning on visiting after his 
	  release from prison (:22). Paul is really saying that Philemon is to 
	  accept Onesimus as much as he would accept him; and if he didn't, then he 
	  was effectively separating himself from partnership with Paul.
	  
	  Take him into your home- 
	  
	  'Receive him'. The point is made twice (Philemon 12,17). Paul had written 
	  to the Romans years before that they should receive one another, as God 
	  for Christ’s sake has received us (Rom. 15:7 s.w.). It seems that the case 
	  of Onesimus gave Paul an opportunity to practically exemplify what he had 
	  meant- now that he was in Rome. Time and again, the theory of the Romans 
	  letter has to be lived out by Paul once in Rome himself. Paul says that if 
	  Philemon received Onesimus, then he received Paul. Paul was one with his 
	  new brother Onesimus (:12). 
	  
	  
	  As you would [receive] me- 
	  
	  Paul parallels loving the Lord Jesus with loving “all saints” (Philemon 
	  5). To receive Onesimus was to receive Paul (Philemon 12); and “if thou 
	  count me therefore a partner [Gk. Koinonos- ‘one in fellowship’], 
	  receive him as myself” (Philemon 17 AV). Paul's mind or spirit was in 
	  Onesimus (:12). Paul is saying that if we receive any brother, then, we 
	  receive him. He clearly has in mind the Lord’s teaching, that if we 
	  receive Him, then we are to receive His brethren. So if we receive any 
	  brother, we not only receive the Lord Jesus, but we receive all other 
	  brethren in Christ; for each brother represents the entire body of Christ. 
	  This shows the utter fallacy of division within the one body. It is an 
	  utter nonsense to accept one brother, but not the other brethren, e.g., of 
	  his ecclesia. According to the logic of Philemon 17, if we don’t accept a 
	  true brother, then we are not treating our other brethren as being in 
	  fellowship. For Paul says that if Philemon considered him to be in 
	  fellowship, then Philemon ought to accept Onesimus. Likewise, he reasons 
	  that he saw in Onesimus the face of Philemon; for Onesimus ministered unto 
	  Paul “in thy [Philemon’s] stead” (Philemon 13). The implications of this 
	  are far reaching. For by refusing fellowship with our brethren, we are 
	  effectively declaring ourselves outside of the body of Christ. And hence 
	  Paul’s sober warnings in 1 Cor. 11, to discern / recognize the Lord’s 
	  body; for if we refuse to break bread with our brethren, then, he says, we 
	  are eating and drinking damnation to ourselves, because we refuse to 
	  accept our part in the Lord’s body.
	  
	  :18 But if he has wronged you at all or owes you something- 
	  Philemon clearly thought that Onesimus had wronged him or stolen something 
	  from him. Or since he had bought Onesimus, he maybe meanly considered that 
	  all the time Onesimus was away in Rome, he was losing money because he had 
	  to take on another slave to replace him.
	  
	  Put that on my bill- 
	  
	  Literally, 'on me'. Again Paul is directly identifying himself with 
	  Onesimus. Attitudes to a brother in Christ are effectively our attitudes 
	  to others in Christ. This is why there can be no respect of persons at all 
	  in Christ. 
	  
	  :19 
	  I, Paul, write this with my own hand:
	  
	  I will repay any debt-
	  
	  Paul was writing from 
	  his hired house within the Roman prison, in the period at the end of Acts 
	  28. He seems to have access to money. But by 2 Tim. 4 he is in prison 
	  [again] and can't afford even a cloak, and needs writing equipment. He 
	  knew how to abound and be abased when it came to money and wealth. 
	  
	  Even though you owe me your own self- 
	  Continuing the theme of ‘profit’, Paul says that 
	  Onesimus ‘owed’ him his very self because Paul had converted him; 
	  therefore any material debt that Onesimus ‘owed’ Philemon should be 
	  forgiven with pleasure (Philemon 18,19). The unpayable debt that we have 
	  should lead us to be forgiving of whatever others owe us. Note in passing 
	  how Philemon ‘owed’ his very [eternal] life to Paul. This is the power and 
	  responsibility of witnessing to others. The saviour is the Lord, and yet 
	  the preacher manifests that salvation to others to such an extent that 
	  effectively we owe our salvation additionally to the person who converted 
	  us. See on :22. Philemon owed his salvation to Paul’s preaching, and was 
	  therefore eternally obligated to him. We too can be a tree of life to 
	  those with whom we live; we can win their souls for the Kingdom (Prov. 
	  11:30). The Thessalonians would be accepted in the final glory of judgment 
	  day simply “because our testimony among you was believed” (2 Thess. 1:10). 
	  Eve, taken out of the wounded side of the first man, was a type of the 
	  ecclesia; and her name means ‘source of life’, in anticipation of how the 
	  church would bring life to the world. 
	  
	  The idea of two men in debt, one [Onesimus] more than the other [Philemon] 
	  recalls the Lord's parable of Mt. 18 about two men like this; and also to 
	  another parable of two indebted men who were both frankly forgiven, and 
	  the one forgiven most loved his master the most (Lk. 7:42,43). There are 
	  several allusions to the parables in the letter to Philemon. The man with 
	  the bigger debt was being unreasonable to the other servant who was indeed 
	  in his debt, but not so seriously as he was. The debt of Philemon was 
	  partly to Paul for saving him, but it could be argued that Onesimus had a 
	  similar debt. The rest of his huge accrual of debt was therefore from 
	  something else which Onesimus had not done. So it would seem that 
	  Philemon, pastor of his own house church, renowned for good deeds... had 
	  some pretty dark secrets, and perhaps it was the practice of them which 
	  had led Onesmius to steal money for a journey and then run away from him. 
	  The "frank forgiveness" of the Lord to the bigger debtor is picked up in 
	  :22 I shall be restored to you.
	  
	  :20 
	  Yes, brother, let me profit from you in the 
	  Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ- Paul recognized that Philemon “refreshed the hearts of the saints”, and 
	  he rejoiced that this was the case. Yet there was one saint whose bowels 
	  Philemon had not yet refreshed- and that was Paul himself. For Paul uses 
	  this very phrase in asking Philemon to rejoice his bowels by 
	  receiving Onesimus (:7,20). Here we see grace to the extreme. Paul could 
	  rejoice that a brother was genuinely loving and encouraging to other 
	  brethren, even though that brother had not been so to him personally. It’s 
	  so easy in personal disputes to write a brother off as totally no good 
	  because he was unkind or inappropriate or downright wrong in his treatment 
	  of us personally; we so easily forget that in many other walks of 
	  his life, he is a wonderful servant of the Lord. Yet Paul modelled the 
	  very grace which he asked Philemon to show to Onesimus. 
	  
	  
	  :21 I write to you having confidence in your obedience- Paul 
	  believed his prayers would be answered and wrote, felt and acted 
	  accordingly. He goes straight on to ask for a room to be prepared for him 
	  on his release from prison (:22), so confident was he that the prayers for 
	  his release would be answered.
	  
	  Knowing you will do what I ask- Gk. 'more than I ask'. In the same way as God had done for us 
	  exceeding abundantly above   all we could ask or think (Eph. 
	  3:20), so Philemon was to do more [s.w.] than the grace that Paul 
	  was suggesting (Philemon 21, 16 s.w.). It’s not just a case of forgiving 
	  each other because we were forgiven; it’s a question of lavishing the 
	  grace upon each other which the Lord has upon us. And notice the context 
	  of all this. Paul says that as Philemon’s elder, he could just “enjoin” 
	  him to do that which was required of those in Christ. But he prefers not 
	  to work through a command from an elder, demanding obedience. Instead, he 
	  appeals to Philemon’s own experience of personal grace, and sees in 
	  that an imperative, a command to be ‘obeyed’ (Philemon 8,21). God’s 
	  generosity to us in answering us “above all we ask of think” should be 
	  reflected in our doing things for others over and above what they have 
	  requested. 
	  
	  :22 See on Acts 20:25 I know.
	  
	  But meanwhile also prepare for me a lodging- This sounds as if Paul was hoping to come to 
	  Philemon along with Onesimus- hence the word "Also", with the emphasis on 
	  "for me" [also]. This plan highlighted Paul's argument- that if Philemon 
	  would fellowship Onesimus, then he was fellowshipping Paul. And if he 
	  wanted to only fellowship Paul and not Onesimus, then this was effectively 
	  not fellowshipping Paul.
	  
	  For I hope that through your prayers- 
	  On :19 Even though we saw that a third party 
	  can be responsible for the fortunes of another brother. Here too, Paul 
	  trusted that through the prayers of Philemon he would be released; and he 
	  was so confident in the answer to that prayer that he asked him even to 
	  prepare a room for him ahead of time! 
	  
	  I shall be restored to you- 
	  
	  Or AV "given unto you". This rather awkward phrase is another allusion to 
	  the parable of the two debtors. It is translated "forgiven" in Lk. 
	  7:42,43. Perhaps Paul's point is that he too is a big sinner, and through 
	  their prayers he would be released from the debts arising. He doesn't want 
	  Philemon to feel that Paul is as it were getting at him unkindly by 
	  suggesting he is like the bigger debtor; he is now saying that he himself 
	  is also in debt to the Lord and even more so. 
	  
	  :23 Epaphras, my fellow-prisoner in Christ Jesus, greets you- Paul 
	  has twice referred to himself as a prisoner in Christ. He is practicing 
	  what he has preached elsewhere- that e.g. slaves should consider their 
	  service to their masters as done unto Christ. He saw himself not as a 
	  prisoner of Caesar but of Christ. This is likely the same as the 
	  Epaphroditus of Phil. 2:25; 4:18. It could be argued that Paul may be 
	  using "prisoner in Christ" in a spiritual sense (Rom. 16:7; 2 Cor. 10:5), 
	  which would not require Epaphras to actually be in prison with him. 
	  Rather, his sense of being a prisoner of Christ in a spiritual sense was 
	  so great that he felt one with Paul who was literally in prison, and Paul 
	  is noting that. 
	  
	  :24 As 
	  do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke, my fellow-workers- 
	  From within prison, Paul 
	  had been able to 'convert' Onesimus and also some in the Praetorian guard. 
	  But this would have required the assistance of others, and it seems Paul 
	  had a faithful group of helpers who came to live in Rome and assist him in 
	  his witness. He calls them here his co-workers. He in prison, apparently 
	  stranded, was still able to “work”. We wonder what role the church at Rome 
	  played in all this; for none of them stood with him at his final trial (2 
	  Tim. 4:16). Paul had been so eager to get to Rome to witness, and had 
	  written to the church there ahead of his coming there; and it seems when 
	  he got there, they didn't really support him much.
	  
	  :25 The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit- See on 
	  :3. Philemon needed to have the grace of Jesus in his spirit / mind in 
	  order to make the right decisions about Onesimus, and Paul wishes this for 
	  him. The charis or gift of our Lord Jesus is His spirit or 
	  mind / disposition. And Paul wished that the Lord's Spirit would be with 
	  and in the spirit of Philemon; for this is the essence of Christianity, 
	  that Christ should dwell in our hearts / minds.